Attention is a loan. A surprising number of businesses behave as though they inherited it.
They interrupt, repeat themselves, ask for an email address before answering a basic question, and then describe the resulting irritation as an engagement problem. Apparently the customer has failed to appreciate the opportunity to become a row in a spreadsheet.
The irritation is ordinary. The business’s surprise at encountering it is what deserves scrutiny.
The bargain has a cost
Imagine two versions of the same product page. One explains the product, shows the price, identifies who it is unsuitable for and makes the next step obvious. The other opens with a cinematic mission statement and requires a consultation to discover whether the thing fits your budget.
The second company may congratulate itself on generating more inquiries. It has also manufactured a reason to inquire. Those are different achievements.
Information withheld from the customer becomes work for the sales team, and the sales team’s workload becomes evidence that the process needs a sales team. A lovely little perpetual-motion machine, powered by everyone else’s afternoon.
Distribution does not create an obligation
A company can buy an ad placement. That buys a placement. It does not buy trust, curiosity or a small permanent apartment inside my head.
The distinction matters when a channel stops producing the results a business expects. The instinct is often to increase the volume or find the new trick. Sometimes the offer itself deserves attention. Sometimes it was surviving on convenient access to an audience that no longer arrives through the same door.
In my experience, businesses can confuse demand for their category with affection for their brand. When discovery changes, that confusion becomes expensive. Marketing gets summoned to repair a relationship nobody bothered to understand while the phones were ringing.
The audience has other plans
What wears me out is the assumption that a business losing access to people is an emergency those people should help resolve. A channel changes. A familiar source of exposure dries up. Suddenly everyone is very concerned about the future of communication. The customer, meanwhile, has bought the thing somewhere else and gone to lunch.
I have watched that distance between the internal crisis and the external indifference swallow entire marketing conversations. Inside the company, the old numbers feel like something owed. Outside it, nobody agreed to keep producing them.
The especially tedious part is being asked to disguise that entitlement as a fresh idea. Another campaign about listening. Another declaration that the customer is at the center. The customer is apparently at the center of a room with no fucking exits.
People who do this work already know that louder is not the same as more relevant. We are tired of having the distinction treated as an exotic theory whenever the monthly report gets uncomfortable. Marketing cannot repossess an audience. The attention was never company property.
Twenty years in marketing and design, across industries. Still paying attention. Considerably less patient.
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